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Thursday, August 29, 2019

Life Finds a Way


Ladies and Gentlemen, we are back for senior year and in better shape than ever before. I still have no idea what I want to do with my life after ONU—not because it’s hard to imagine a time without this school, but none of us can see the future. I have to get to the bridge before I find a way to cross it and taking baby steps doesn’t mean I can’t have long term goals. I figure since life doesn’t have a plan, I should focus more on the things I can control and catch opportunities as I go.  

Here’s a good example. I took a job at a country club this summer and quickly learned working with wealth is a double-edged sword. Plenty of great people can through and I genuinely enjoyed sharing time with them. You get to know the members as they come back each week which make the good ones better and the bad: a nuisance. I can’t decide who walks through the door, but I can serve everyone warmly and with respect.


I serve one couple regularly and we always have a blast together. On my last night, I get a business card from the woman who goes on to explain her job at the state treasury. Accepting things as they come and adapting is how we grow as people and I appreciated how a mindset shaped a relationship. So for this semester, I think I’ll take a similar approach. Just remember: Take baby steps, look up every once in a while, and respect gets respect. I’ll see you next week Aggie, et al.

2 comments:

  1. This is my last year of school as well so I know the feeling of not knowing what is coming next.

    I am glad you had a good summer working at the country club! When you treat people with respect and kindness only good things can happen.

    Have a great year!

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  2. I think even though I have four more semesters to finish before I graduate, I will always never know exactly what's going on. That applies both to current classes, capstone, as well as anything that'll happen after college. Hopefully the recognition that just about everyone is in the exact same boat, albeit a sinking one, makes you feel the tiniest bit better.

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