Music acts as a social expression and acts like a reflection on the DJ. Reactions vary among people, but comfort level plays a major role in how someone chooses tunes. For example, some people relate to others through mutually enjoyed songs and artists. Songs are easy to pick without conflict though. Music can give an immediate reaction. Take metal: I don’t personally listen to it, but I also don’t mind if it comes on a playlist. Other people might hear the intro to a song and immediately feel uncomfortable. It depends on the audience, which varies from group to group.
Picture driving down the road with a group of friends. The gang is about to embark on an adventure when the car goes quiet. Someone notices the AUX cable isn’t attached to a phone and what follows is a cornucopia of reactions. Some people are very defensive about their music and the rights to a car stereo, other people would rather have a passenger handle the tunes.
When people ask who your favorite artist is, do you immediately have someone come to mind? One response could be “I listen to everything” but most people don’t like this answer. I think it has to do with a perception of someone being disingenuous. I don’t always have a band in mind but I think I should. People can use this question as a way to subconsciously attribute personality traits. This works both ways too: “you listen to punk music so you must be rebellious”, or “you look basic so you listen to pop.” I think it does more harm than good though.
Music is supposed to bring people together. We may not agree on every playlist but should my perception change for someone because of their tastes? I don’t think so. Common ground and bands which cross genres help to unify people under a love of tunes. One solution to this question could be to make a personal mix-tape or playlist so the range of music can manifest. At the end of the day though, I’d rather be with those friends than choosing what song we play.
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